[ This idea occurred to me from a thread (by Under Your Skin, a long-timer) titled 'Remember when...". I noticed that many replies weren't about fond memories but rather digs at rivals about when they were better or didn't fail (but haha, now they do). Black humor? Maybe. A trend? Certainly. And therefore worth a comment. ]
Posters enjoyed talking about the talent on their teams and the good wins and the clutch hits, instead of revelling in the losses of *other* teams , goading opponents about their failures, and wallowing in the disappointment of others - shadenfreude . Sucking up the real feelings of others (even sadness) to compensate for an emptiness they themselves can't deal with and must deny. Living off the 2nd hand misery as if it were life-giving, instead of dead. The newage vampires of gloating - unbecoming and so very temporary, unsustaining and empty.
I miss the cheering a great catch, hit or performance by an opponent - by *baseball fans*, very unlike the vampires of gloating. Remember when fans felt great when the team beat a tough rival and that feeling of accomplishment, pride and achievement came from knowing the rival was very good... instead of the classless trend of spouting that your rival s*cks? So if that's true, you're beating a worthless bag of bums - again, empty gloating vampires .
I doubt that Mickey Mantle thought Ted Williams s*cked.. much less ever took any joy in his hitless days. Much less ever teased a rival on his failure.
Don't misunderstand - as a Yanks fan, I root for my team and feel great when they beat, say.. the RedSox. But jumping on a Sox tread to "neener-neener.. you blow" after a loss isn't the same. It's ugly. And I don't believe respect here is earned by gleeful threads on others misery. Is self-esteem so fragile that the only way a poster can feel "better" is by demeaning another? Again, don't misunderstand - I get "trash talk"... smack down, bravado, even put downs. Yup, when called out, I'll defend and even dissect a poster spouting off. But slapping a knucklehead is way, way different than jumping on the disappointed fans leaving a game thread, heads down and feeling low (we all have been there) and taunting, gloating or provoking a rival. Most good people grew out of that after they developed a conscience and any sense of empathy. Or not, as the case may be.
You don't have to look far for examples of the newage vampires (and by the way, more a guy thing, much less among women... capacity to feel empathy and better self-esteem?) Read the thread titles and initial replies. I'm curious about what others think on this - post examples, reaction or whatever. I strongly believe it's at the heart of enjoying this board - both ways, strangely enough. Our bipolar love-hate reason to be here?